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The Rainbow Chasers
August 12, 2005 | |
Dear Illusionist:
I’m sorry it didn’t work out favorably between you and Miss Elusive.
Or maybe it did, after you began to ignore her that is.Funny the ones we so hastily seek appear so far beyond our grasp. You of all people should know this is only an illusion. Indeed, fellow Rainbow Chaser, you do know just as we begin to tire of the pursuit they come sniffing back around. Typical rather than ironic in my opinion. Especially for those who have yet to develop a bond stronger than that delicate yet incessant pull we call…chemistry.
Just slow down now, because this is important. Heed the advice of a former rainbow hunter.
It’s these delicate days most early day romantics hastily skip. They throw caution to the wind and loose themselves in each other before finding out what they want, let alone who they are. And with one’s own uncertainty within themselves, they attract an equally uncertain partner. Of course, no one notices because everyday is Sunday.
And with both parties facades shining so brightly–they blind each other with their newness. Getting caught up in illusions which will inevitably fade. So just pause for a moment because there’s something far greater waiting for you beyond the horizon. Something more permanent than the elusive rainbow. And if you possess the patience to wait out the sunrise, you’ll find a treasure which awaits your discovery.
Throughout this journey (after much trial and much more error) I have learned this:
Those holding strongest to their convictions became dearest to my heart. And this process was never rushed. At the beginning, it may feel painful and unfamiliar. (Mind you, this is typically the point when most give up) But don’t let anxieties deter you. Your guardedness can only imprison you. Just press on. Those uncomfortable poundings within your chest are simply growing pains.
And our hearts will stir and swell and push strong against the very boundaries we ourselves created. Soon enough, we end up sheltering ourselves from the very thing we seek to inspire. Which is love.
And it hurts a bit at the beginning–as it should.
This giving of yourself should not be taken lightly; it is the boldest gesture we can make.
And henceforth, should not so easily be stowed upon those less deserved. These days I set my sights beyond these horizons, and I bask in the warmth of a sun which burns brightly behind a clouded past. Moving forward and remaining focused I came across my treasure. But this only became visible to me after the rainbow began to fade, and I was no longer held captive by its fleeting beauty.
You asked me for a treasure map but this journey affords no detours.
Instead I will extend to you one secret , to aid your journey in discovering someone true and accepting of all you have to give: Time.
I know it sounds simple, because it is.
You will find this too, my dear illusionist. When you are ready.
When you are open to it. Be generous with your heart and love will find you.
And when it does…relax. If she knocks the wind out of you, take a breath. Discover what transpires when you wait–When you allow for her to earn your affections.
So many will attempt to inspire that bittersweet pounding in your chest that sometimes hurts.
But be selective with those who seek to capture your heart.
After all, it’s the greatest gift you can give…
And if she fails to meet you in the middle to build upon your future, than move along now and allow for a more deserved candidate. You are far too clever to settle for a rainbow in the midst of a rainy springtime. Stop chasing rainbows my dear Illusionist.
Hold out for a summer…
the sunshine is waiting.
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